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What Florida law decides, and what you still get to decide yourselves

Florida family law changed more in 2023 than it had in decades. Permanent alimony was eliminated for cases decided on or after 1 July 2023, and the law now starts from a presumption that equal time-sharing is in a child’s best interests. Both changes mean that advice given before mid-2023 — including most of what is still written online — can be wrong. DAPENALAW handles uncontested divorce, parenting and time-sharing, child support, alimony, property division, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, paternity, injunctions and post-judgment modifications, from offices in Miami, Homestead and Tampa, in English and in Spanish.

Quick answers about Florida family law

How long must I live in Florida before filing for divorce?
One spouse must have lived in Florida for six months before the petition is filed. Fla. Stat. § 61.021.
Do I need a reason to divorce in Florida?
No. Florida is a no-fault state. It is enough that the marriage is irretrievably broken. Fla. Stat. § 61.052.
Is permanent alimony still available?
No. It was eliminated for cases decided on or after 1 July 2023. Bridge-the-gap, rehabilitative and durational alimony remain, plus temporary support during the case.
Is time-sharing automatically 50/50?
Not automatic, but presumed. Since 1 July 2023 equal time-sharing is presumed to be in the child’s best interests, and a parent who disagrees must prove otherwise by the greater weight of the evidence.
Where is a Miami-Dade divorce filed?
At the Lawson E. Thomas Courthouse Center, 175 NW 1st Avenue in Miami — the Eleventh Judicial Circuit family division.
How is child support calculated?
By a statutory formula that uses both parents’ net incomes, the number of overnights each has, and the cost of health insurance and childcare. Fla. Stat. § 61.30.
Can we handle a divorce without fighting?
Often, yes — and it is cheaper, faster and better for the children. An agreement the two of you reach is almost always better than one a judge imposes.
Can the case be handled in Spanish?
Yes. The attorney and the staff speak Spanish, so the matter can run in Spanish from the first conversation.

01 What the firm handles

Family law matters DAPENALAW handles in Florida

Divorce work here is uncontested — matters where the two of you agree on the terms, or can be helped to get there. That is deliberate: an agreement the two of you reach costs a fraction of one a judge imposes, and it holds up better afterwards.

  • Uncontested divorceWhere the two of you agree on the terms, or can get there.
  • Parenting plans and time-sharingSchedules, decision-making, holidays, exchanges, relocation.
  • Child supportGuideline calculations, deviations, and enforcement.
  • Alimony and spousal supportUnder the 2023 statute, not the one most articles still describe.
  • Equitable distributionDividing property, accounts, pensions and debts.
  • Premarital and postnuptial agreementsDrafted before, or during, the marriage.
  • PaternityEstablishing it, and establishing a father’s time-sharing and support.
  • Injunctions for protectionPetitions and defense, including injunctions arising within a family case.
  • Post-judgment modificationsWhen income, schedules or circumstances change after the judgment.

02 What changed

What the 2023 changes to Florida family law actually did

Two statutes were rewritten in 2023, and between them they changed the two questions most people care about most: how long support lasts, and how much time each parent gets. Both took effect on 1 July 2023, which means a great deal of what is still published online about Florida divorce describes a system that no longer exists.

Permanent alimony is gone. SB 1416 eliminated it for cases decided on or after that date. What remains is bridge-the-gap, rehabilitative and durational alimony, plus temporary support while the case is pending. Rehabilitative alimony is now capped at five years. Durational alimony requires a marriage of at least three years. And no award may exceed the lesser of the recipient’s reasonable need or 35% of the difference between the parties’ net incomes — a hard statutory ceiling, not a guideline a judge can simply exceed.

Equal time-sharing is now the starting point. HB 1301 created a rebuttable presumption that equal time-sharing is in a child’s best interests. That is not the same as automatic 50/50 — a parent who disagrees can still rebut it — but the burden has moved. Before the change, a parent seeking equal time often had to build a case for it. Now a parent seeking anything other than equal time has to prove, by the greater weight of the evidence, that equal time would not serve the child.

The practical effect is that advice from before mid-2023, from a friend who divorced in 2019 or an article written in 2021, can be confidently and completely wrong. It is worth saying so plainly, because people make decisions on that advice before they ever speak to a lawyer.

03 How it starts

How a Florida divorce actually begins

One spouse must have lived in Florida for six months before the petition is filed. That is jurisdictional under § 61.021 — without it the court cannot hear the case at all, and the residence has to be proved, usually by a driver license, a voter registration or the testimony of a corroborating witness.

Florida is a no-fault state. Under § 61.052 the court needs a finding that the marriage is irretrievably broken. It does not need to hear who was unfaithful, who left, or whose fault it was. That surprises people, and it disappoints some of them — but the law is not interested in assigning blame for the end of a marriage, and bringing that fight into a case usually costs money without changing the result.

The petition is filed, the other spouse is served and has twenty days to respond, and both sides must then exchange financial documents under the mandatory disclosure rule — tax returns, pay records, account statements, debts — whether or not the other side asks for them. Incomplete disclosure is the single most common reason a simple case stops being simple.

Where there are minor children, both parents must also complete an approved parenting course before a final judgment is entered. It is a statutory requirement under § 61.21, not a formality a judge can waive because the parties get along.

Most Florida family cases go to mediation before a judge decides anything contested. Many resolve there.

04 The children

How time-sharing and parenting plans work in Florida

Florida does not use the word custody. It uses two separate concepts: parental responsibility, which is who makes the major decisions about schooling, health care and religion, and time-sharing, which is where the child actually is. The two are decided separately, and shared parental responsibility is the norm even where the time-sharing is not equal.

Every case with minor children needs a parenting plan: the schedule week by week, how holidays and school breaks are divided, how exchanges happen and where, who takes the child to appointments, how the parents communicate, and how a disagreement gets resolved without going back to court. A vague plan is the thing that brings people back to court two years later, so the detail is worth the argument now.

Since 1 July 2023 equal time-sharing is presumed to be in the child’s best interests. A parent who wants something different must rebut that presumption by a preponderance of the evidence, using the best-interest factors in § 61.13 — the capacity of each parent, the stability of each home, the child’s school and community record, the division of parenting tasks up to now, and more.

The statute also now provides that a parent moving to a residence within 50 miles of the child’s primary residence may be considered a substantial and material change in circumstances, which can open the door to modifying an existing plan. Moves of more than 50 miles are governed separately by Florida’s relocation statute and generally require agreement or a court order before the move happens — not after.

05 The money

How Florida calculates child support

Child support in Florida is a formula, not a negotiation. Section 61.30 sets a guideline amount built from both parents’ net incomes, the number of overnights each parent has with the child, and the cost of health insurance and work-related childcare. A court can depart from the guideline figure, but it has to make written findings explaining why.

Because overnights feed the formula directly, the time-sharing schedule and the support number are not separate questions. They move together, and an agreement that settles one without looking at the other usually produces a surprise.

Net income is not take-home pay as people usually mean it. The statute defines what comes out of gross income to reach it, and a parent who is voluntarily unemployed or underemployed can have income imputed — the court calculates support on what they could earn rather than what they chose to earn.

Support is usually paid through the State Disbursement Unit rather than directly between parents, which creates a payment record neither side has to keep. That record matters later, in any dispute about arrears.

06 Alimony

What alimony looks like in Florida after the 2023 reform

There are four kinds now, and permanent is not one of them.

Temporary support covers the period while the case is pending, and ends when the final judgment is entered. Bridge-the-gap helps with identifiable short-term needs in the transition from married to single life; it cannot exceed two years and cannot be modified. Rehabilitative alimony funds a specific, written plan to acquire education, training or credentials, and since 2023 it is capped at five years. Durational alimony provides support for a set period after a marriage of at least three years, with the length tied to the length of the marriage.

Whatever the type, the award cannot exceed the lesser of the recipient’s reasonable need or 35% of the difference between the parties’ net incomes. That ceiling is the most consequential part of the 2023 statute and it is frequently missed, because most of the material written about Florida alimony predates it.

The court first decides whether one spouse has an actual need and the other has the ability to pay. Only then does it reach the type and the amount, weighing the length of the marriage, the standard of living, each party’s age and health, their contributions including as a homemaker, and their earning capacity.

07 The property

How property and debt are divided in a Florida divorce

Florida divides marital property equitably, and § 61.075 begins from the premise that equitable means equal. A court moves away from an equal split only on the factors the statute lists — the contribution of each spouse to the marriage, the economic circumstances of each, the intentional waste or destruction of marital assets by one of them, and others.

The real work is usually classification rather than division. Marital property is generally what was acquired during the marriage, whoever’s name is on it. Non-marital property is generally what each person brought in, plus gifts and inheritances received individually. The complication is that non-marital property can become partly marital — a house owned before the marriage whose mortgage was paid from joint earnings, a business that grew because both spouses worked in it, a separate account that joint money was deposited into.

Debts are divided the same way. A credit card in one spouse’s name can still be a marital debt, and a divorce judgment allocating a debt does not bind the lender — if your name is on the loan, the bank can still come after you regardless of what the judgment says. That is a point worth understanding before signing an agreement, not after.

Retirement accounts and pensions earned during the marriage are marital property, and dividing them usually needs a separate court order directed to the plan administrator.

08 Before and during

Premarital and postnuptial agreements in Florida

A premarital agreement decides in advance what would otherwise be decided by a judge — how property is classified, what happens to a business or an inheritance, and whether alimony is waived or limited. A postnuptial agreement does the same thing after the marriage has begun.

Florida enforces these agreements, but they are set aside often enough that the execution matters as much as the drafting. The usual grounds are that the agreement was not entered voluntarily, or that there was no fair and reasonable disclosure of assets and income before signing. An agreement produced a week before the wedding, with no disclosure and no time to take advice, is the fact pattern that gets challenged.

Child support cannot be bargained away by agreement. It belongs to the child, not to the parents, and a court is not bound by what the parents agreed about it.

09 Paternity

Establishing paternity, and what follows from it

Where the parents were not married, an unmarried father in Florida has no automatic right to time-sharing until paternity and a parenting plan are established. Being named on the birth certificate, paying support, or living with the child does not by itself create enforceable rights to see the child.

Chapter 742 sets out how parentage is determined — by agreement and acknowledgment, by administrative order, or by a court action that can include genetic testing. Once established, the same framework applies as in any other case: a parenting plan, a time-sharing schedule and guideline child support.

It runs both ways. A mother seeking support needs paternity established first, and a father seeking time with his child needs it just as much.

10 Protection

Injunctions for protection, and where they meet a family case

An injunction for protection against domestic violence is a civil order, separate from any criminal case, and it can be granted temporarily before the other party is ever heard. Section 741.30 sets out the petition process and the standard. A temporary injunction can order someone out of a shared home, set a temporary time-sharing arrangement and restrict contact, all before a full hearing.

That makes the full hearing consequential on both sides. An injunction affects where someone lives, their contact with their children and, often, their employment, and it becomes part of the record in the family case running alongside it.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. A courthouse petition is not an emergency service, and the domestic violence unit at the courthouse can help with the paperwork the same day.

11 Afterwards

Changing a Florida order after the judgment

A final judgment is not permanent, but it is not easily changed either. Modifying support or time-sharing requires a substantial, material and unanticipated change in circumstances since the last order — not simply a change of mind, and not a circumstance that was already foreseeable when the judgment was entered.

Job loss, a significant change in either parent’s income, a child’s changed needs, a parent’s relocation, and since 2023 a move within 50 miles of the child’s primary residence, are the situations that most often qualify.

The most expensive mistake in this area is self-help. Stopping payments because time-sharing is being denied, or withholding a child because support has not been paid, does not change the order — it creates an enforcement case against the person who did it. The order stays in force until a court changes it, and the time to move is when the circumstances change, not months later.

12 Mediation

How mediation works in a Florida family case

Florida requires mediation in most contested family matters before a judge will decide them. It is not an optional step a determined party can skip, and it resolves a large share of cases — including many where both people arrived certain it would not.

A mediator does not decide anything and does not represent either side. The job is to find the agreement that exists between two positions, and mediators in family matters are often experienced family lawyers or retired judges who can tell both parties, candidly, what a court is likely to do with the case in front of them. That assessment is frequently the thing that moves it.

What is said in mediation is confidential and cannot be used later in the case. That is what allows both sides to put an offer on the table without it becoming evidence if the offer is refused.

Where it works, the parties sign an agreement that day and it becomes the basis of the judgment. Where it does not, the case proceeds — but the issues have usually narrowed, and narrowing is worth something even when it does not settle.

The preparation is what determines the outcome. Walking into mediation without complete financial disclosure, or without having thought through what a realistic schedule looks like week by week, wastes the day. Walking in with both costs a fraction of a trial.

13 Cost

What drives the cost of a Florida family case

Family law is not handled on a contingency fee. That arrangement belongs to injury cases, where there is a recovery to take a percentage of. In a family matter, fees are agreed in writing before any work begins, and you should expect to be told how they are calculated rather than given a number with no structure behind it.

The largest variable is not the lawyer. It is how much the two of you disagree, and how much of that disagreement reaches a judge. An uncontested matter where the terms are settled costs a fraction of a contested one. Each contested issue adds disclosure, correspondence, hearings and preparation.

The second largest variable is disclosure. A party who produces their financial documents promptly and completely shortens the case for both sides. A party who does not lengthens it for both, and generally pays for the privilege.

Things that reliably cost money without changing the outcome: arguing about who was at fault for the marriage ending in a no-fault state; litigating over personal property worth less than the hearing to decide it; and using the children’s schedule as leverage on a financial issue, which courts see clearly and do not reward.

14 Where it is heard

Which courthouse hears a family case in Miami-Dade or Hillsborough

In Miami-Dade, family cases are heard at the Lawson E. Thomas Courthouse Center, 175 NW 1st Avenue in Miami — the family division of the Eleventh Judicial Circuit, which also handles domestic violence matters. The Sunset Drive office is a short drive from it, and the Homestead office on Krome Avenue serves the south of the county.

In Hillsborough, family matters are heard through the Thirteenth Judicial Circuit in downtown Tampa, a few minutes from the Habana Avenue office.

Where a case is filed depends on residence rather than on where the marriage took place or where the parties married. Most of a family case happens outside a courtroom in any event — in disclosure, in negotiation and at mediation — and the cases that do reach a judge are usually the ones where those steps were skipped.

15 The law

Florida statutes that decide a family law case

Two of these were rewritten in 2023. Where a source you are reading does not mention that, treat it as out of date rather than merely old.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.021

    Residence requirement

    One party must have resided in Florida for six months before the petition for dissolution is filed. Without it the court cannot hear the case.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.052

    Dissolution of marriage

    Florida is a no-fault state. The court needs a finding that the marriage is irretrievably broken, or of mental incapacity meeting the statute. Who caused the breakdown is not the question.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.075

    Equitable distribution

    Marital assets and debts are divided equitably, beginning from the premise that the split should be equal, and moving away from equal only on the factors the statute lists.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.08

    Alimony — rewritten in 2023

    SB 1416 eliminated permanent alimony for cases decided on or after 1 July 2023. Bridge-the-gap, rehabilitative and durational remain. Rehabilitative is capped at five years, durational needs a marriage of at least three years, and no award may exceed the lesser of the recipient’s reasonable need or 35% of the difference between the parties’ net incomes.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.13

    Time-sharing — changed in 2023

    HB 1301 created a rebuttable presumption that equal time-sharing is in the best interests of the child, effective 1 July 2023. A parent opposing it must rebut the presumption by a preponderance of the evidence. A move within 50 miles of the child’s primary residence may count as a substantial change in circumstances.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.30

    Child support guidelines

    A formula, not a negotiation. It uses both parents’ net incomes, the number of overnights each parent has, and the cost of health insurance and childcare. A court departs from the guideline amount only with written findings.

  • Fla. Stat. § 61.21

    Parenting course

    Both parents in a dissolution involving minor children must complete an approved parent education and family stabilisation course before the final judgment.

  • Fla. Stat. § 741.30

    Domestic violence injunctions

    The petition process for an injunction for protection, the standard the court applies, and what a temporary injunction can order before a full hearing.

  • Fla. Stat. ch. 742

    Determination of parentage

    How paternity is established where parents were not married, and how time-sharing and support follow from it. An unmarried father has no automatic time-sharing rights until parentage and a parenting plan are established.

  • Fla. Fam. L. R. P. 12.285

    Mandatory disclosure

    Both parties must exchange financial documents — returns, pay records, statements, debts — whether or not the other side asks. Incomplete disclosure is the most common reason a simple case stops being simple.

Florida family law questions, answered

How long does a divorce take in Florida?

Where both people agree and the paperwork is complete, a matter of months. Where there are contested issues, considerably longer — mediation, disclosure disputes and court scheduling all add time.

The two things that lengthen a case most are incomplete financial disclosure and an unresolved disagreement about the children. Both are worth solving early rather than late.

Do we both need our own lawyer?

A lawyer cannot represent both spouses. The interests are opposed in law even when the people are perfectly amicable.

One spouse can retain counsel to prepare the agreement and the filings while the other proceeds unrepresented, which is common in an uncontested case — but the unrepresented spouse should understand that the lawyer is not acting for them and should consider having the agreement reviewed independently before signing.

Is Florida a 50/50 state for property?

Close, but that is not quite the rule. Section 61.075 divides marital property equitably, starting from the premise that equitable means equal, and moves away from equal only on the statutory factors.

The harder question is usually not how to divide, but what counts as marital in the first place.

Can I still get permanent alimony?

No. Permanent alimony was eliminated for cases decided on or after 1 July 2023. Bridge-the-gap, rehabilitative and durational alimony remain, along with temporary support during the case.

If you were told otherwise, check when the advice was given. A great deal of what is published online about Florida alimony predates the change.

Does the mother automatically get more time with the children?

No, and Florida law does not favor either parent by gender. Since 1 July 2023 the law presumes equal time-sharing is in the child’s best interests.

A parent seeking a different arrangement must rebut that presumption by the greater weight of the evidence, using the best-interest factors in § 61.13.

What if my spouse will not agree to the divorce?

A divorce does not require both people to agree to it. Florida is a no-fault state and one spouse asserting that the marriage is irretrievably broken is enough.

What a disagreeing spouse can do is contest the terms — property, support, the children — which changes how long the case takes and what it costs, not whether it happens.

Can child support be waived if we agree?

No. Child support belongs to the child, not to the parents, and a court is not bound by an agreement that waives or undercuts it.

Parents can agree on many things. This is one of the few they cannot.

My ex stopped paying support. Can I stop the visits?

No, and doing it creates a problem for you rather than for them. Support and time-sharing are separate obligations, and withholding a child because support was not paid is a violation of the order in its own right.

The remedy is enforcement — through the court or through the Florida Child Support Program — not self-help.

Do I need to go to court?

In an uncontested case, very little court time is usually involved, and some matters can be concluded with a brief final hearing.

Contested issues are different, but even then most of the work happens in disclosure, negotiation and mediation. Florida requires mediation in most contested family matters before a judge decides.

Does my immigration status affect a family case?

A Florida court can hear a family case regardless of a party’s immigration status, and status does not disqualify a parent from time-sharing or support.

Status can intersect with a family matter in ways that need care, and anyone with a concern should raise it at the first conversation rather than leaving it unsaid. If the question is really an immigration question, you should be told that plainly rather than guessed at.

What does a family law case cost?

Family law is not handled on contingency — that is an injury-case arrangement and it does not apply here. Fees are discussed and set out in writing before any work begins.

An uncontested matter where the two of you agree costs a fraction of a contested one. That is the single largest variable, and it is substantially within your control.

Can the case be handled in Spanish?

Yes. The attorney and the staff speak Spanish, so the case can run in Spanish from the first conversation through to the final judgment.

Court filings and hearings are in English, and the firm handles that side of it. Interpreters are available at the courthouse where a hearing requires one.

Talk to a Florida family law attorney

English or Spanish, whichever you would rather use. You deal with your attorney directly at every stage. Family matters are billed hourly rather than on a contingency, and the consultation terms are explained when you call.